While this week has been, and continues to be, profoundly destabilizing for me, personally, I carry forward by grounding into WHY I do what I do.

Because, all of a sudden, this work in parent and family coaching feels urgent.

My mission is to awaken parents to the wisdom that’s sitting here, waiting for them, and readily available to support them in raising self-confident, self-aware, compassionate, high-functioning and well-adjusted kids.

Nothing is more clear to me at this point than this:

That we moms and dads need to act fast if we want to guide our kids toward reaching their highest potential.

If we want to both protect and nurture them in the way that will be most supportive and efficient to fulfilling their unique needs,

and if we want to facilitate their growth and maturation so that they become healthy, upstanding, conscientious citizens of the world,

then now is the time for us to make some swift and meaningful adjustments to how we think about them and communicate with them.

Now is our opportunity to reduce arguments.

Eliminate the head-scratching over why they do the things they do.

And connect with them in a way they will most likely engage with us, instead of feeling like we’re always “talking to a brick wall.”

How do we do that?

1. Moms and dads can learn how their one-of-a-kind kids are individually, uniquely, wired to process things like:

• fear,
• grief,
• opinions,
• beliefs,
• stress,
• anger,
• joy,
• intuition
• impulses.

And then we can:

2. Accept that these things are all different forms of energy that everyone has the need, and the power, to process in healthy ways.

3. Next, we take a step deeper into learning how our kids are uniquely built to process these energies: do they emerge from inside our kids, or are our kids taking them in from external sources and then filtering them through their energy bodies?

4. After discovering that, we leverage that knowledge and use it to help our kids move through their day-to-day lives, confident and self-aware.

All this includes discovering how THEY are uniquely hardwired to determine what’s valuable from what’s not, who is safe and who poses a threat, and even to decipher who they are, deep down, at the core of their identity.

We have access to knowledge now that shows us everything we need to know about our kids’ energetic needs.

And the time has come for us to use it to help them make informed, aligned decisions that are right for them.

To help them understand where their impulses and instincts are coming from.

To guide kids toward arriving at well-thought-out solutions to their problems.

We use this knowledge to empower children to name their emotions and identify their fears.

And we begin to understand, for ourselves, when and why they’re experiencing stress or pressure, so that we can teach them how to process it out of their bodies in a healthy manner.

Parents can apply the wisdom of their children’s natural, energetic makeup to teach them how THEY are uniquely wired to communicate, so they can do so effectively to build strong, healthy relationships throughout their lives.

And we use this information to instill within our kids the kind of awareness that’s required to be able to self-advocate for what they need, when they need it, and from whom.

Alternatively, we can waste time assuming our kids are built just like us.

We can push our ideas of how they “should” think, act, communicate, process fear and stress, behave and emote onto them.

Or we can determine what ought to matter for them rather than giving them the skills and awareness to arrive at those conclusions independent of our biases.

But chances are, the way our kids are built to think and act is very different from how we are.

(I can attest to this: my kids are completely different from me!)

Remember: everyone’s unique.

The days of sticking to the trite and limited belief that people are the way they are based on “nature or nurture” alone are over.

Accept that we are all energetic beings. We just are. You know it. You feel it. You get a gut instinct. You feel inspired. You notice somethin’ ain’t right when a toxic person walks into the room. THAT’S ENERGY working in real time.

Our kids take in and give off energy, too. Some of it comes from inside them. Other energy from external sources (other people, the atmosphere) affects them.

Parents deserve to understand how their kids’ energy is operating inside their bodies and where it’s coming from — because knowing this explains a lot of things that “nature vs. nurture” cannot.

My latest resource lays out, in simple terms, the 9 Core Energetic Needs of every child.

But it’s customized to fit YOUR kid, so it explains HOW, precisely, your child is uniquely hardwired to process their 9 Core Energetic Needs.

It also provides tactical, actionable strategies so that parents can help their children process and EXPRESS these various unique energetic needs IN THE HEALTHIEST WAY possible.

The customized, downloadable, 9 Core Needs Report, which you can download by filling out the form below, gives moms and dads useful tools and practical solutions for helping kids to build self-confidence, show compassion and empathy for others (something our society has somehow lost touch with), recognize their inner strengths, be proud of and at peace with their growth areas, and hopefully, reach their highest potential.

It’s hot off the presses; I just published it yesterday now that it’s been edited and improved after having a small group of parents give it a test run and provide honest feedback.

And you can download your child’s 9 Core Needs Report for ONLY $27 right now. So grab it while you can before the price jumps soon.

Go ahead and plug in your kiddo’s birth details in the form below. You’ll immediately get a customized FREE ENERGY BLUEPRINT generated so you can start learning immediately about how they’re hardwired. Make sure to save it to your computer because you’ll want to reference that later.

Then, when you’re ready to buy the full, 25-page, customized PDF e-book that delves deep into your child’s 9 Core Needs, go ahead and click that green button under your free Energy Blueprint to order.

Just $27 to know how to guide your kiddo in the most effective, efficient, healthy way possible.

I can’t wait to serve you by sharing this empowering knowledge about the way YOUR unique kiddo is energetically built to operate.

Thank you in advance for ordering, and please feel free to let me know what reflections come up as you read it.

Blessings and gratitude for all that you’re managing right now, moms and dads. I know it’s tough right now, and I’m sending love your way.

Janeen